Well, I don’t know her, but I saw a post on another forum saying that she’s pretty self-destructive. She probably makes good money, but must spend it all on alcohol, drugs, and lately on trips. Most likely her mental state is just like that… Personally, I wouldn’t give her anything until she proves she’s actually fighting to fix her own life and get back on track. Otherwise, she’ll just keep self-destructing and burning through all the money in a dumb and careless way.
Remember that being on OF she's taking advantages of plenty of lonely/depressed/mentally sick men in the first place. If it's real i feel bad for her, but she doesn't deserve any more help than the guys who are supporting her financially.
Sow the wind, reap the whirlwind.