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Hi Sargota, sorry for taking a while to reply.

I admit that I said it feels nearly impossible for me, as a non-Caucasian foreigner, to form a romantic relationship here in the Netherlands

To be honest, it often seems, feels and looks like society here is closed off and is in general fairly segregated.
Though over the five and half years that I’ve been living here on my own (while my parents and siblings are back home in the Caribbean), I have seen some exceptions where relationships happen regardless of ethnicity or race.

You might be right that the only truly impossible things are the standards we set for ourselves. I won’t deny that there’s truth in what you said.

Also, your analogy about luck, winning the lottery, and genetics made sense to me, for example: when thinking about wanting a woman who looks as attractive as Lily.B.

Thank you for taking the time to read about my situation and for giving
me advice

Fils-A-Mech take a look at book called 'the game ' by Neil Strauss. Read and adapt with a bit of common sense because it's more focused on US society but it's valuable. Years ago I was in a situation similar to yours, and reading this book and similar stuff (don't go crazy buying courses and so on. you can download this book in sites like zbooks) shifted things quite positively to the point I got 'tired' of the life style, and quiet down to build a family. Now I can just enjoy my healthy doses of porn

Sorry guys in the thread for writing something unrelated. Just wanted to help a buddy

Will definitely look up and read the book you mentioned

Also, thanks for giving me advice and I appreciate the fact that you've been in a similar boat than me, regardless of being in the U.S.

Personally speaking, I most definitely want to be a dad some day

Shoot me a message mate and I'll try and help you out through my own experience